Posts

KNOWING WHEN TO SAY NO!

Image
Ever found yourself in a situation whereby you didn't just know how to say no? We've all been there, you are not alone. Sometimes, hearing a negative answer seems to be easier to handle than actually giving it. A lot of people are scared to say no, because they fear that people may feel let down by their response and they just haven't learnt how to handle disappointments. But the truth is, saying no to a request or  offer is sometimes the best thing to do. It could save you from a lot of stress, heartbreak, anxiety and all sorts of awkward situations. It doesn't make you the "bad guy". Instead, it helps you to be honest to yourself and on a long run, it makes you a reliable person. Because if you say no when you know you really can't meet up with a demand or offer, you give the person making a request the opportunity to get another chance or look elsewhere for that demand to be met. You can't live your life trying to please every single person, it ju
Post a Comment
Read more

THE INTEGRITY THING

Image
Integrity has become a common word today, but not necessarily a common act. Many organizations place a high value on individuals with high moral values, because it seems that such specie of humans are gradually going into extinction. Integrity is a very important value, even though not many are willing to do what it really takes to become people of high uncompromising moral soundness. It requires a lot of work, discipline, sacrifice and patience to become a person of integrity. But the journey is worth it, at the end of the day, because there are usually rewards ; some long term, sometimes short term. And everybody feels more comfortable being around and working with people they can trust. Recently I had an experience that reminded me of the importance of integrity even in our daily lives. I boarded a motorcycle to take me home (as in I entered okada) and after paying him, he was meant to give me a balance of four hundred naira N400, but he gave me seven hundred naira instead becau
Post a Comment
Read more

NEW BEGINNING!!

Welcome to my blog. Yaaayyy!! Joy unspeakable ,that's how I feel right now. After years of procrastination, I've finally started this blog of life. In the spirit of new beginnings, I'll like to encourage someone with this warning. START NOW!! There's no perfect time to start that business, dream, organization, group. Get sick and tired of giving excuses. Start now!!! Today is the tomorrow of yesterday, learn to number your days. Each day that passes only brings you closer to another year. There will never be another JUNE 19,2017 Ever!!! Start that course, write that letter, start that club, start that blog. You never can tell, you just might be the one the world is waiting for!!
3 comments
Read more